“Wait until the baby comes—you’ll never have sex again.” and "“Sleep now while you can." are common things that new moms hear all the time. They usually come from other moms themselves or someone who thinks it is a funny joke. But let us change that, because honestly, it is unfair. 

Mothers do so much so and they deserve to have time for self care as well. Motherhood shouldn't mean your life is over. It does not mean you should have to put pleasure on pause for a while... or forever. 

At Honey Play Box we want to empower women, especially mothers to put themselves first. We want to rewrite the narrative from "You'll never have time to yourself" to "I deserve to feel good every in every way, every single day". 

One Minute At a Time

Self care doesn't need to be elaborate. It can be as simple as  taking an "Everything shower", Take your time to enjoy a deep conditioning hair mask, exfoliate with your favorite body scrub, or simply just standing and enjoying the water rush over you. Drowinng everything out.  Although you might feel guilty about taking time for yourself, those few minutes you take allows you to recharge yourself mentally and emotionally which can also help you show up more intentionally and positvely. 

You can also take some time to prioritize your pleasure. As a new mom it can feel a little intimidating because your body has changed and evolved and you are still learning this new version of yourself. But this can be exciting! This is a great chance for you to reconnect and redisocover what makes you feel good on your own terms. 

OLY 2 is the perfect toy to start with because of its multifunction and un-intimidating design. Not only is it at an easy to manage size, it is also app enabled giving you the option to control the vibrations and intensity to your liking. This way you have control every step of the way. What makes OLY 2  unique is its pressure sensor technology. The harder you squeeze the more intense it will be. It is intuitive and responsive to your unique body. Honey Play Box designed it with mothers in mind and proves that you don't have to compromise between wellness and pleasure.

Self Care > Survival 

Instead of telling mothers “Sleep now while you can,” we should be saying,
“Make time for yourself—you deserve to feel good. Always.”

And instead of warning “You’ll never have sex again,”
let’s say instead:
“Sex after birth will be different, but it can be deeper, more powerful, and just as exciting in a whole new way.”

Motherhood can be enpowering but that means mothers need to know and believe that they are a priority too.  Postpartum, your body will be and feel different. You might experience mood swings, loss of libido, a weaker pelvic floor and more. But making time for some self care will hep you feel more grounded and can help you reconnect with yourself gain.

Pelvic Floor Training

After giving birth your pelvic floor will be weaker which can cause accidents like urine leaks, pain during sex, or trouble reaching an orgasm. These are unfortunately the side effects after birth. However you can do Kegel training to get your strength back. If you are a beginning to Kegel training and don't know where to start, Honey Play box has the perfect devices to make it as easy and painless as possible. 

Elektra uses e-stim technology to train your pelvic floor. The gentle electric pulses stimulates muscle contracts to help strengthen the pelvic floor muscle. It also comes with 4 interchangable balls so you can switch between the weights depending on how comfortable and confident you feel. It's also app enabled so you can easily follow the training exercises on the app. This is a great tool for those who don't know where to start because you will get expert and gentle guidance. 

Aira is another great tool for pelvic flooor training. 

Aira is another great tool for pelvic flooor training and uses a revolutionary air pressure technology. It is an inflatable tool with an ergonomic design. Aira can also connect to the Honey Play Box app so you can get the smart and visualized training and assessments easy. 

Aira has a flexible design and uses medical grade silicone so you can feel comfortable and safe using it.

Give mothers flowers...and more!

Mothers are some of the strongest, most caring, and selfless people in the world. This Mother's Day, show them the love and care they deserve. Not just on Mother's Day... but everyday!