How can I introduce a vibrator into my relationship?
It can be quite nerve-wracking to introduce sex toys into a relationship. Even more so a vibrator since there is a stigma that sex toys mean that your partner is not fulfilling an aspect of your sex life.
Honey Play Box suggests taking it slow. Keep in mind that open communication is key — take the time to sit your partner down and talk without any distractions. Make sure to assure them that there is nothing wrong with the way they please you, it's just that you would like to experiment and invite them to join you.
And if your partner agrees with your wish, take the process of using a vibrator slowly as well. Since both of you are new to this, make an effort to get to know every mode and how it feels against your good spots.
This is a great opportunity to take your intimacy to a deeper level and discover new things you didn't know about your partner's body before.
Do vibrators desensitize you to sex?
Nope! On the contrary, vibrators actually heighten your sexual experience by facilitating a different kind of stimulation.
Just because they offer something more, doesn't mean that it will replace masturbation or sexual intercourse with a partner! Vibrators are there to support whatever you and your partner have and get both of your heat meters up a notch.
It can help you discover new ways to stimulate erogenous zones, it can open you up to new kinds of orgasm (blended orgasm, anyone?) and for the ladies — it can definitely make you squirt!
So, vibrators don't desensitize you to sex at all!
Can I squirt using a vibrator?
As we said, you can definitely use a vibrator to squirt! One of the ways you can do so is to use your fingers to warm up your vagina, vulva, and clitoris, then you can repeat the cycle but with a vibrator.
More importantly, when you're pleasuring yourself, relax and listen to your body because removing yourself from the pressure will open you up to squirting well!
Should I try a G-spot or clitoral vibrator?
It depends! You have to ask yourself what you're looking for in terms of receiving pleasure.
Do you like to receive it externally or internally? Deep or shallow?
After you've answered those questions, then you can compare which of these two vibrators would suit you best!
If you like it deep, then a g-spot vibrator would be best. If you like it shallow, then a clitoral vibrator is the one for you!
We recommend the Joi — who is a rotating head g-spot vibrator and clit kicker, and the Scioness — who is a sucking and licking clitoral stimulator.
If I don't like vibrators, what can I use?
Don't fret! It's not the end of the world! There are many other types of toys you can use! Honey Play Box offers a variety such as dildos, butt plugs, and BDSM toys!