5 Anal Sex Positions That Make Anal Sex Easier (Black Friday 2025 Sex Toys Discounts)

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Anal sex can seem intimidating at first, but with the right preparation, patience, and communication, it can become one of the most exciting ways to explore pleasure. It’s an experience that anyone can enjoy, regardless of gender, and when done safely, it can bring deep satisfaction and emotional connection.

Unlike the vagina, the anus doesn’t naturally self-lubricate. That’s why using a good lubricant (like the Honey Play Box Water-Based Lubricant) is essential. Lube reduces friction, prevents discomfort, and makes the entire experience smoother, safer, and more enjoyable.

To help you feel more confident, we’ve rounded up a few beginner-friendly positions, plus the best anal and sex toys for couples to make your experience more comfortable and pleasurable. If you’ve never had anal sex before, check out our Beginner’s Guide to Anal Sex!

Position #1 Lying Doggy

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This classic is a favorite for a reason: it’s easy, intimate, and lets the receiving partner relax. Both partners lie on their stomachs with the giver entering from behind. Adding a pillow under the hips lifts the pelvis for deeper, smoother penetration.

Pros:

This position is one of the easiest anal sex positions because it allows the receiving partner to relax, lie down, and let their partner do the physical work. Once comfortable, the receiving partner may enjoy grinding up and down to increase stimulation for both themselves and their partners. If you're a little nervous about eye contact, this position is the one for you, as you don't have to face your partner and, instead, can calm down and enjoy the intimate experience.

Cons:

As seen in the illustration above, both partners are facing away from each other. If you and your partner enjoy eye contact and crave seeing each other’s facial expressions, or kissing during intercourse, then this position might not be the best to satisfy those intimate needs.

Pro-tip:

To maximize pleasure for couples, place a pillow under the waist of the receiving partner. The pillow will help lift the receiver's pelvis, giving the thrusting partner a clearer angle of entry and allowing them to penetrate deeper. The thrusting partner now has access to grab their partner’s hair, throat, or stimulate. The thrusting partner must make sure that the receiving partner is relaxed and aroused. An excellent way to make sure that the receiving partner is ready for anal penetration is to use toys like anal plugs to prepare them. The thrusting partner can also stimulate themselves using a male masturbator, so ensure both partners enjoy the experience. You can also perform rimming, finger, or lube up your partner’s anus to make sure they're aroused.

Additional Help:

Start with a gentle anal plug like the Red Gem Rose Gold Metal Plug or use something flexible like FRENZY to warm up. If you’re new, take your time and focus on comfort before penetrating.

Must-have: Lube

Position 2 # Tilted Doggy

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The Tilted Doggy Style is one of the several doggy style variations that have been reinvented for people's personal preferences. Perfect for those who prefer more control, this variation allows both partners to adjust the angle and depth easily. The receiver stays on all fours while the giver kneels behind.

Pros:

The Tilted Doggy Style is the perfect position for fans of deep penetration and people who love taking charge. This position is excellent for first-timers as penetration is easier and more relaxed.

Cons:

The Tilted Doggy might be a bit "vanilla" for those seeking a more adventurous experience, but it can still be exciting when using app-controlled vibrators.

Pro-Tips:

This position lets the thrusting partner use their hands freely, making it perfect for the thrusting partner to stimulate the receiving partner's nipples or clitoris.

Use a vibrator like TERRI or the tapping finger TEMPO to add clitoral or G-spot stimulation while you play. Make sure to pair it with plenty of lubricant to keep things smooth.

Additional Help:

For extra stimulation, try wearing a cock ring like ANELLO, which will not only make you last longer but also stimulate your partner’s perineum.

Position 3 # Back It Up

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Looking for another beginner anal sex position? Back It Up is your best friend! Ideal for shallow penetration and maximum comfort, this one is perfect for beginners. The receiving partner lies on the edge of the bed while the giver stands behind for easy, controlled access.

Pros:

This position may look difficult to perform, but it is actually a beginner-friendly position. This is due to shallow penetration, which reduces pain and discomfort for beginners. Remember, the deeper the penetration, the slower you have to go to ensure that it’s comfortable.

This position also maximizes the pleasure of penetration for both partners since the receiving partner’s thighs are pressed together, meaning the penetrating partner will be more comfortable.

Cons:

An obvious drawback is that the penetration might not be deep enough for some partners. All bodies are different, and the range in sizes between couples can result in the penetrator not being able to stimulate their partners' P-spot.

Pro-Tips:

Placing a pillow under the receiving partner’s waist can help adjust the angle, enabling the thrusting partner to target different areas of their partner’s anus.

Additional Help:

Add gentle vibrations with some of the best couples sex toys like the IDRIS Anal Vibrator, or start with a slim, tapered toy like NOAH. These toys help the body relax and build confidence over time.

Position 4 # Full Throttle

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At first glance, you might think this position is missionary, but you’d be wrong. The Full Throttle is a variation of the missionary position that really puts the pedal to the metal.

A more intense version of missionary, this position allows for deeper penetration while maintaining eye contact and intimacy. The receiver lifts their legs for better angles and closeness. This is a relatively easy position to pull off, but it is still daring enough to drive couples wild.

Pros:

Because the receiver’s body is almost fully folded, the penetrating partner can enter them deeper, which is a must-try position for lovers of deep penetration.

This position also allows both partners to be face-to-face, allowing intimate eye contact and kissing, which promotes more emotional intimacy.

Cons:

Keep in mind that the receiving partner’s waist will bear a lot of weight and pressure. If the receiving partner has chronic pain in their lower back, this position might not be the best choice. Additionally, holding this position for too long can tire the receiving partner or make their legs go numb from being up in the air, so be sure to take a break or switch positions if any discomfort arises.

First timers may find it difficult to relax their body and anus while maintaining the receiving pose, so the thrusting partner should be patient and penetrate slowly until their partner is ready.

Pro-Tips:

Try a dual stimulator like JOI THRUST 2 for added stimulation. Add a drop of lube for seamless comfort.

Additional Help:

The thrusting partner can use male sex toys, such as a cock ring, while the receiving partner can use app-controlled sex toys for extra pleasure.

Position 5 # The Caboose

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The Caboose appears tame, but can turn into the most romantic anal sex position! This sweet, seated position combines closeness and control. The giver sits while the receiver slowly lowers onto them, creating warmth, connection, and rhythm.

Pros:

This position closes the distance between couples, ensuring there is no gap between bodies. You’ll feel each other’s breathing, temperature, sweat, and even each other’s heartbeats.

Cons:

Those who crave deep penetration might find that this position lacks that sensation. The receiving partner is sitting on top of the penetrating partner, and their bottom will naturally create a cushion that will not allow the penetrating partner’s penis to enter all the way.

If you enjoy seeing your partner’s priceless facial expressions or kissing during sex, you might not enjoy this position as much as those that face your partner.

Pro-Tip:

The thrusting partner can use their hands to explore their partner’s erogenous zones (like the nipples and clitoris). Experiment with different app-controlled sex toys such as VIBROSA for that extra spark.

Final Tips

Always use lubricants and keep reapplying as needed.
Start slow and communicate throughout.
Explore toys that make relaxation easier, like TERRI, IDRIS, or NOAH.
Try adding vibration or thrusting toys like JOI THRUST 2 to enhance sensation.

Anal play should always be about comfort, curiosity, and consent, not pressure or pain. Whether you’re a total beginner or looking to level up your sex life, Honey Play Box has everything you need to make your next session smoother, safer, and infinitely more satisfying.

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Frequently Asked Questions

Q. Does anal sex hurt?

A. Not if you go slow and use enough lube! Discomfort often comes from rushing or not being fully relaxed. Starting with toys like NOAH or FRENZY can help your body adjust comfortably.

Q. What’s the best lube for anal sex?

A. A thick, water-based lube like Honey Play Box's Water-Based Lubricant is ideal. It’s safe with all toys and condoms and keeps things smooth without irritation.

Q. Can I use a vibrator during anal sex?

A. Absolutely! Toys like TERRI or JOI THRUST 2 enhance stimulation and help the receiver relax. Just make sure the toy has a flared base for safety.

Q. How do I prepare for anal sex?

A. Communication, foreplay, and plenty of lube are key. Use toys like IDRIS or the Red Gem Plug to get comfortable with the sensation.

Q. Can anal sex be safe and hygienic?

A. Yes, as long as you use lube, condoms, and clean your toys properly after use. Check out Honey Play Box’s full collection of body-safe toys to play safely and confidently.