Lips are for More than just Talking: Here are the 5 Best Oral Sex Toys to Use Now

There are times in your life when you simply don't want to use your pussy or anus today.

That's okay! These get tired and sore, and we never want to overstimulate — or worse, hurt them as they're sensitive body parts and need to be treated with care.

When times like these come about, what does one do when we're looking for pleasure,

May we suggest going down the oral route?

After all, the mouth can do many things and if one is willing, then this is something that should be given a shot!

It's fairly easy to do! With the right tips and tools, then one can master the art of oral pretty quickly!

What is Oral Sex

First off, what is oral sex? According to WebMD, it is defined as the "oral stimulation of a partner's genitals or anus." This intimate act is often a part of foreplay before intercourse and can bring pleasure to both partners involved. However, while it may appear simple, giving the best oral sex experience requires some knowledge and technique.

To ensure a satisfying experience, it's important to communicate with your partner and understand their preferences and boundaries. Proper hygiene is also crucial for both partners involved. Taking the time to explore your partner's erogenous zones and paying attention to their reactions can enhance the pleasure and intimacy of the experience.

Remember, everyone is different, so what works for one person may not work for another. Open communication, experimentation, and a willingness to learn and adapt are key to giving the best head.

How to do Oral Sex

Which begs the question: How?

Healthline has a few ways!

Before diving in (pun intended), one must first acknowledge that everyone has a smell. Meaning, one can't expect for their partner to smell like roses down there, it's just impossible. One has to accept that our biology has its own processes and smells and that is completely normal.

Now that there is recognition, let's move forward to what one can do for the best oral!

If your partner has a vulva, then you might consider:

  • With a flat tongue, lick long strokes over their underwear. Don't be afraid to get them wet.

  • With consent, move forward with pulling those panties aside for some tongue-to-skin action. Don't forget to pay attention to the clit and the flesh surrounding it. You know what? Shower the inner thighs some attention too! It's a sensitive part that for sure can send tingles down their spine.

  • Always start from the bottom up. Works every time.

  • Don't underestimate the clitoral hood – or the little flap of skin over the clit, because if you flex your tongue to create flicking or circular motions, it honestly feels the best.

  • Then, reveal the clit by using your fingers to gently pull the hood upwards and use the same flex tongue and movement to stimulate it. Start with light pressure and speed and gradually ramp things up.

  • When you get into a groove that they love, maintain the speed and consistency to take them over the edge.

If your partner has a penis, then you might consider:

  • Begin by using the tip of your tongue to go up and down their penis – specifically from the shaft to the head. Don't forget to spend some time at the tip because it's one of the penis' most sensitive parts and can definitely turn them on even further.

  • Like the clitoral hood, you can also lift the underside of the shaft to flick the frenulum – or the wrinkle of skin where the shaft joins the head.

  • Go around the entire length repeatedly and don't be afraid to let them hear how much you enjoy it.

  • Hold the base of their shaft and take the rest in your mouth, then slowly slide up and down while sucking lightly. Gradually pick up the pace as their pleasure builds.

Recommended Honey Sex Toys for Oral

The mouth is a powerful tool for oral pleasure, but if you're looking to enhance the experience, there are various toys available that can help. Whether you're a beginner or more experienced, these recommendations can add an extra level of excitement to your intimate moments:

JOI Rotating Head G-Spot Vibrator and Clit Licker

JOI G-Spot Vibrator and Clit Licker

JOI is a sensational clit licking toy designed to provide realistic oral sensations. It features a soft, flicking and licking tongue – ultimately offering an unparalleled experience whether you're enjoying a solo session or spicing up foreplay with a partner. She boasts 7 tantalizing tongue licking patterns that allow you to explore varying levels of intensity while it pleasures your clit, nipples, or any other sensitive spots. Along with 7 rotating and vibrating patterns, this elegant toy also offers a range of sensations – from gentle caresses to powerful pulses, ensuring endless possibilities. 

JOI is made to fulfill all your oral desires with its tongue-like licker that makes out with your clit, while the main shaft simultaneously stimulates your g-spot, resulting in mind-blowing dual orgasms. 

Lastly, its ergonomic design and perfect length make it ideal for most vulvas, expertly targeting your erogenous zones both inside and out. Made with body-safe silicone and boasting a silky smooth texture, JOI guarantees exquisite sensations with every insertion.

JOI Thrust App-Controlled Thrusting G-Spot Vibrator and Tongue Clit Licker

JOI Thrust G-Spot Vibrator and Tongue Clit Licker

The JOI Thrust is designed with accessibility in mind, offering a more inclusive experience compared to the original JOI. Its unique and realistic features enhance the pleasure and intimacy during solo sessions or shared moments with a partner.

By syncing the JOI Thrust with an app, users can enjoy a hands-free experience, allowing for more freedom and ease of use. Additionally, the app connectivity enables individuals in long-distance relationships to connect and explore pleasure together. With its versatile functionality, the JOI Thrust offers 9 thrusting vibration modes and 9 clit-licking modes, ensuring a customizable and pleasurable experience for every user.

Scioness Sucking and Licking Clitoral Stimulator

Scioness Clitoral Stimulator

Scioness is a thrilling clit licker and sucker designed to fit over most of the vulva to deliver a sensational sensation like no other.

With two pleasure functions to choose from, it licks and sucks for a wonderful stimulation while providing double the pleasure.

Be swept away by the 9 tongue-licking patterns of the realistic tongue inside the cup. It flicks back and forth over your clit, nipples, and more, offering 9 speeds and patterns for maximum pleasure.

This oral sex toy is also made from superior and body-safe materials to ensure a luxurious touch and are safe for even the most sensitive skin.

With its USB rechargeable feature, you can easily charge it using the magnetic USB charging cable. Just 90 minutes of charging provides 30 to 50 minutes of playtime, ensuring uninterrupted pleasure whenever you desire.

Seduction Stimulation Suction Vibrator

Seduction Stimulation Suction Vibrator

Experiencing an incredible level of pleasure with Seduction who is designed with a tongue-like stimulation that delivers precise and powerful sensations.

With its wider and larger mouth, She can fully engulf your most sensitive areas like your clit, nipples, and other erogenous zones.

And the 10 licking modes and 5 suction modes take you from gentle to wild, ensuring a truly captivating and pleasurable experience.

The best part? Seduction is waterproof! So you can transform your showers and baths into unforgettable erotic adventures. Made of body-safe silicone, it guarantees not only your sexual pleasure but also your sexual wellness.

Fiona Plus Rose Clit Licking Stimulator and Thrusting Egg

Fiona Plus Rose Vibrator

She's called a Plus for that reason, and that's because she's an upgrade from the original Fiona model!

Double the pleasure, double the fun – Fiona Plus is the perfect companion to pleasure both of your most sensitive spots at the same time.

Open up a flower and you'll see what it's made of, is what we like to say about the rose stimulator because the realistic tongue peeks out like a shy bloom but doesn't hesitate to rock your socks off once it touches our vulva or even anus.

More than that, you can take it to the next level by adding wonderful thrusting motions as you're being stimulated orally through the thrusting egg. For sure, it will feel so splendid being pleasured from both ends.

All of these, on top of its stunning design. This bloom won't fool you – and that's the truth!


Engaging in oral sex can be a pleasurable and intimate experience for you and your partner. To ensure a satisfying experience – effective communication, proper hygiene, and understanding your partner's preferences and boundaries are essential.

Make sure to pay attention to erogenous zones and experiment with different techniques to ensure that you'll find what feels good for you.

You and your partner can also consider using oral sex toys like the ones above to add excitement and variety to your oral excursions.

Before we let you go, we want you to remember that oral sex is more than that mouth itself, it requires open communication and a willingness to adapt are key to giving the best oral sex experience.

Tina Young

Tina Young has always been passionate about exploring sexuality and empowering others to explore and express their own sexual desires. She is an experienced sex toy reviewer, examining people’s relationship with pleasure and the expression and fulfillment of their desires through sex toys. Tina is also a sex coach, helping individuals understand, express, and become comfortable with their own sexuality.