Can You Use Coconut Oil With Sex Toys?

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It's always important to use lube when using sex toys. There are plenty to choose from. Is coconut oil one of them?

This guide will answer the question of whether or not it's safe to use. Needless to say, there's always been the concern with oil-based lubricants and how they might harm the materials of most sex toys. Can the same be said with coconut oil?

Well, let's get right to the chase. Yes, coconut oil can be a useful lubricant for most sex toys (key word:most). So now that you know, let's expand on that some more in this guide.

What makes coconut oil a good lubricant?

Coconut oil is considered one of the more naturally made oils. The reason for this is that they contain no chemicals whatsoever. Not even the chemicals that may harm your genitals.

There is skin that is rich in mucus around the vulva and vagina. This has the ability to become absorbent. When this happens, you might absorb some of the harmful chemicals contained in some lubes.

It may also cause yeast infections as well. That's why you want to pay attention to what you're getting in a lube. When shopping for one, you want to find one that is free of any harmful chemicals, parabens, glycerin, and other preservatives.

When all else fails, coconut oil will check off those boxes. This can be a useful lubricant for not only the vagina but also the anus as well. Likewise, it can also work well for sex toys when you need to use a lubricant to make it easy and useful.

What about condoms?

Yes, we are talking about coconut oil and sex toys. But we should stress that coconut oil can be useful for sex. However, the major caveat is that it cannot be used on condoms.

It's true. So your best bet is to use silicone or water-based lubricants. Oil is oil when it comes to condoms. And even coconut oil can do some damage.

Are there any sex toys that can't use coconut oil?

Remember earlier when we said 'most' as a keyword. There are most sex toys that use coconut oil as a lubricant. However, there are some where it's not suitable.

If the sex toy in general contains silicone (like a HoneyPlayBox Joi), then you want to forgo the coconut oil. That's because oil and even silicone based lubricants can break down the materials. Now, if your toys are used from glass or stainless steel, that's where the light turns green.

You can use a liberal amount of oil-based lubricant (especially coconut oil). If you are using silicone sex toys, water-based lubricants will be your best (if not only) option.

When shouldn't you use coconut oil as a lubricant?

While coconut oil is mostly harmless, there is a situation where it may not be used as lube. If you are someone with a vagina that deals with regular yeast infections, it may be wise to avoid it. The reason for this is that it can hurt the PH balance levels.

However, you may want to consider talking to your doctor before using it on your body. If the coconut oil itself is pretty mild, then you should be good to go. Otherwise, if it's triggering yeast infections, then your best bet would be using water-based lubricants going forward.

Where can you find coconut oil?

You can find coconut oil at any place where foods are sold. Yes, even organic foods. After all, coconut oil is made from organic ingredients.

You can find it in the grocery section of your local Wal-Mart. You can also find it in drug stores like CVS or Walgreens. The good news is that it won't be located in the personal lubricant section.

You can breathe a sigh of relief knowing that someone may not notice you're purchasing a personal lubricant. Or for that matter, you're just buying coconut oil and no one has to know what for.

Why should you lubricate sex toys?

Lubricating your sex toys will be used to reduce any friction that can occur during sex. At the same time, it can also be used to enhance the sexual pleasure between two partners. Plus, it will get rid of any potential discomfort.

These lubricants can be applied to sex toys or condoms. However, it's important to know what kind of lubricant you are using. There are three different types: water-based, silicone-based, and oil-based.

You will need to carefully choose one that will be best used for the purpose of sex. If you are intending on using lube along with sex toys or condoms, water-based lubricants will always be your safest bet.

As mentioned, any sex toys that are glass or stainless steel can use oil-based or silicone based lubricants. However, any sex toys with silicone materials cannot use either type of lube. Therefore, the only option is water-based.

Once again, oil-based lubricants should not be used on condoms. This can cause more friction and cause the condom to tear. Your partner may not notice this until the end of sex.

As a rule, never used oil-based lubricants on rubber or silicone. If all else fails, water-based lubricant will work to your advantage. In the case of coconut oil, some of the same rules apply as if it were any other oil-based lubricant.

Final Thoughts

Using coconut oil with sex toys can be fine. However, it will depend on the kind of toy you are using. It's important to pay attention to the kind of material it contains.

If you are looking for a sex toy, find one that contains compatible materials that will work with coconut oil. It should also be important to find out if your body is able to handle coconut oil. If you have an allergy, don't use it.

If you are prone to yeast infections, don't use it. Otherwise, put it to good use and see how it works for you.

Honeyland Author

An engineer with a huge love for sex toys & tacos. Relentlessly working to change the sex space to be more user-friendly, educational & inclusive. Together with his wife Leja, Luka is a creator of several notable things which include an educational sex blog - Spices of Lust, the first ADA-ready and fully illustrated sex shop - The Sex Shed, and a brand of fantasy toys - Raw Love Studio. When he isn't surrounded by sex toys, he usually spends his time riding a bike, hiking, or cooking.