Imagine waking up on the wrong side of the bed and wanting to relieve the stress by seeking intimate release. You roll to the side to find your partner not there so getting up from the bed to fetch your vibrator seems to be the next big idea. The thing is, even your body refuses to get up because it's exhausted. What do you do then?
This is where app-controlled vibrators come in! These are a popular choice especially for couples because it allows both parties to control the intensity and pattern of vibrations remotely – making it a refreshing and exciting way to enhance their sex life!
Here's the challenge, though! Not a lot of people know how to use this yet so we're here to take you on a quick journey how to use them:
What is an App-Controlled Vibrator?
According to The Pink News, an app-controlled vibrator is one of the newer types of sex toys that can be controlled remotely via a mobile app. They are typically connected through your phone via Bluetooth which allows you or your partner to control the vibrator from a significant distance!
Along with its flexibility of distance, it also has flexibility in features because it comes in a range of patterns and intensities that can be explored and even customized through the app. It's because of these two aspects, it makes it the perfect choice for couples looking to spice up their intimacy using the current advancement of hands-free play!
Using an App-Controlled Vibrator in Public
With the app-controlled vibrator getting rid of the challenge distance brings when experiencing pleasure, it brings up the interesting question of how couples can use this? Well, strap in because there are many ways to use this bad boy…like in public!
Imagine having the opportunity to take your sex toy beyond the four walls of your bedroom (if you're up for it)? It opens up many doors for couples who're more on the adventurous side because they can use this while in a dark alleyway or in the corner of the club. The options are endless! However, it's important to be mindful as well of the risks and potential consequences when engaging in such public acts!
If you're aware of these such as getting caught by strangers or engaging in a place that may not be so hygienic, and are decided to still push through then that's great! But there is also no shame in being unready for this kind of play too! If you do decide to use an app-controlled vibrator in public, ensure that you've taken several steps to ensure discretion!
These steps are making sure to choose a location where you won't be disturbed, making sure that the vibrations are not too loud or noticeable! Start slow by setting it at the lowest level first and gradually work your way up! It's a good thing that there are toys like our Joi Thrust that makes it possible to be quiet – even when the vibrator is at its highest setting!
Using an App-Controlled Vibrator in a Long-Distance Relationship
Another way to use an app-controlled vibrator is on long-distance relationships! Its capability to control the vibrations from a distance adds a different yet familiar sensation of pleasure and excitement while couples are catching up through a computer screen! It feels as if they're not far away and are just beside you, touching you with their own hands.
In order for app-controlled vibrators to work within long-distance relationships, make sure that both parties have the app and the vibrator, so they're able to control it whenever, wherever! All that's left is to agree on who gives and who receives first!
Speaking of which, just because distance is no longer a problem doesn't mean communication should leave the window. It's still important to talk about wants, needs and boundaries because they will always play an important role in making both parties feel safe and sound within their relationship!
On the other hand, the fun doesn't stop there! App-controlled vibrators also come with their own unique features such as some have a chat-feature so couples could talk to other users and make new friends, while some offer a built-in video chat so couples would no longer have trouble setting up multiple phones or computers just to get the perfect video call! These features can be a fun way to explore your sexuality and connect with others in a safe and consensual way.
How to Use an App-Controlled Vibrator
Now you know what an app-controlled vibrator is and what it offers, allow us and Masterclass to walk you through how to use it:
Step 1: Choose Your Vibrator
With app-controlled vibrators coming in a variety of options, it's important to choose one that suits your specific needs. So consider the size, shape, material, range and budget. Don't be afraid to get picky because this is going to be the vibrator that makes you feel good, not others.
Step 2: Download the App
Now that you have your chosen app-controlled vibrator, it's time to download its corresponding app! It will allow you to choose and use the vibrations remotely so make sure both you and your partner have it in order to take turns providing pleasure!
Step 3: Connect Your Vibrator
Once you have downloaded the app, you'll need to connect your vibrator to your phone via Bluetooth. Follow the instructions in the app to connect your vibrator to your phone.
Step 4: Experiment with Vibration Patterns
After connecting it to the app, start experimenting with the different patterns and intensities! Most app controlled vibrators come with a range of vibration patterns, from steady vibrations to pulsating patterns. The recommendation is to start slow then work your way up the ladder in intensity or until you get to a level where both of you feel comfortable yet oh-so good.
Step 5: Have Fun!
Finally, have fun! Entrust that you and your partner will take care of each other while taking turns using the app-controlled vibrator! It's important to bask in the excitement and have fun in this new experience until the both of you have come to a point where it's now a well-integrated part of your sex life!
Conclusion
There you have it! A guide to the app-controlled vibrator – what it is, how to use it and where to use it! Keep in mind that it only feels good when both parties have trust and comfort in the relationship because it's only then that problems like distance, fade away!
